Family mediation in Southport
Lakes Mediation helps separating couples and parents in Southport resolve disputes about children, finances, property and parenting arrangements without immediately moving into court proceedings.
Southport mediation support
- MIAM appointments
- Child arrangements mediation
- Parenting plans
- Financial mediation
- Legal aid eligibility checks
Lakes Mediation Southport
Separating or divorcing can create difficult decisions about children, money, property and future communication. Lakes Mediation offers families in Southport a structured and confidential way to work through those issues with support from an impartial mediator.
Mediation helps you stay involved in the decision-making process. Instead of asking a judge to decide everything for you, mediation gives both people the opportunity to discuss practical options and work towards proposals that fit the family.
What family mediation can help with
Child arrangements
Discuss where children live, when they spend time with each parent, handovers, holidays, birthdays and special occasions.
Financial issues
Work through property, savings, pensions, debts, income, maintenance and financial disclosure after separation or divorce.
Parenting plans
Create a practical structure for co-parenting, communication, school decisions, healthcare and future family arrangements.
What is mediation?
Mediation is a voluntary and confidential process where a neutral mediator helps people discuss the issues they cannot agree on. The mediator does not take sides, give legal advice or impose a decision.
The aim is to create a structured conversation where both people can explain their position, understand the options and work towards practical proposals. The final decisions remain with the people involved, not the mediator.
Mediation can be especially useful where parents need to continue communicating after separation because they still need to make decisions for their children.
MIAM appointments in Southport
Before applying to the Family Court for many children or financial orders, most people are expected to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting, known as a MIAM, unless an exemption applies.
A MIAM is an individual meeting with a mediator. It explains how mediation works, checks whether mediation may be suitable and gives you the chance to ask questions before deciding on next steps.
If mediation cannot proceed
If mediation is not suitable, one person does not wish to take part, or an exemption applies, the mediator may be able to sign the relevant court form where appropriate.
This may include forms connected with children or financial applications, such as a C100, Form A or FM1, depending on the circumstances.
Help with the cost of mediation
Cost should not stop you from checking whether mediation may be suitable. Legal aid may be available for family mediation if you meet the eligibility rules. This depends on income, capital, benefits and wider financial circumstances.
For children cases, the Family Mediation Voucher Scheme may also provide a contribution towards joint mediation sessions. Lakes Mediation can explain what support may be available and what information is needed for an assessment.

What happens after the MIAM?
If mediation is suitable and both people agree to continue, joint sessions can be arranged. These sessions usually focus on the main issues that need to be resolved, such as children, finances, property or future communication.
Where sitting together is not appropriate, shuttle mediation may be considered. This allows each person to remain separate while the mediator moves between them to support discussion.
How Southport mediation works
| Contact Lakes Mediation | Speak to the team about your situation and whether you need help with children, finances, MIAMs or court forms. |
| Attend your MIAM | You attend an individual confidential meeting with a mediator to discuss mediation, suitability and possible next steps. |
| Invite the other person | Where appropriate, the other person can be invited to attend their own separate MIAM. |
| Start joint sessions | If mediation is suitable and both people agree, joint mediation sessions can begin online or by another suitable format. |
| Work through the issues | The mediator helps structure discussions around parenting, money, property, pensions, communication and future arrangements. |
| Record proposals | Where proposals are reached, the mediator can record them. Legal advice or a court order may be needed to make some outcomes binding. |
Mediation in Southport and Sefton
Southport is a historic seaside town known for Lord Street, Southport Pier, Marine Lake and the Sefton Coast. Its surrounding areas include Birkdale, Ainsdale, Churchtown, Marshside and Blowick.
Lakes Mediation supports families across Southport and nearby communities with MIAMs, child arrangements, parenting plans, financial mediation and online appointments.
Our Southport hub
Southport Hub:
Norwood Road, Southport, PR8 6HQ
This location is strictly by appointment only and is not staffed. Mediation and urgent MIAM appointments can also be arranged online.
Southport mediation FAQs
| Do I need a MIAM before court? | In many family cases, a MIAM is usually required before applying to court unless an exemption applies. |
| Can mediation help with children? | Yes. Mediation can help parents discuss where children live, when they spend time with each parent and how future decisions are handled. |
| Can mediation help with finances? | Yes. Mediation can help separating couples work through financial disclosure, property, savings, debts, pensions and settlement proposals. |
| Can mediation be online? | Yes. Online mediation is often useful for families balancing work, childcare, travel or difficult communication. |
| Can legal aid cover mediation? | Legal aid may cover mediation if you meet the eligibility rules. The team can discuss the information needed for an assessment. |
| Is the Southport hub staffed? | No. The Southport hub is strictly by appointment only. Please arrange an appointment before attending. |
Our Southport location
Find our Southport mediation hub at Norwood Road, Southport, PR8 6HQ. Appointments must be booked in advance.
Start family mediation in Southport.
Speak to Lakes Mediation about MIAMs, child arrangements, parenting plans, financial mediation, online appointments, legal aid checks or next steps after separation.
