Family mediation in Blackpool
Lakes Mediation helps families in Blackpool make practical child arrangements, parenting plans and financial decisions after separation or divorce.
Blackpool mediation support
- MIAM appointments
- Child arrangements mediation
- Parenting plans
- Online and shuttle mediation
- Legal aid eligibility checks
Lakes Mediation Blackpool
For families in Blackpool facing separation or divorce, family mediation provides a constructive way to agree child arrangements without immediately resorting to the Family Court.
Mediation helps parents focus on the practical arrangements that matter: where children live, when they spend time with each parent, how decisions are made, and how communication will work after separation.
Child arrangement mediation in Blackpool
Where children live
Discuss whether children will live mainly with one parent or whether shared care arrangements may be workable.
Time with each parent
Agree regular time, weekends, school holidays, birthdays, Christmas, handovers and other important arrangements.
Co-parenting decisions
Work through schooling, healthcare, communication, new partners, travel, passports and wider parenting decisions.
What child arrangements can cover
In family law, child arrangements replace older terms such as custody and access. The aim is to create a practical parenting plan that reflects the child’s needs and gives both parents a clearer structure.
Residence
Where the child will primarily live and whether any shared living pattern is realistic.
Spending time
Weekends, weekdays, overnight stays, school holidays and handover arrangements.
Special occasions
Birthdays, Christmas, religious occasions, school events and family celebrations.
Communication
How parents will communicate with each other and how children will keep in touch when away from either parent.
School and health
Schooling, medical appointments, emergency contacts, clubs, activities and wider welfare decisions.
Parenting plan
A clear written plan can record the practical arrangements agreed during mediation.
Understanding your MIAM
Before applying to the Family Court for a Child Arrangements Order, most people must attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting, unless an exemption applies.
A MIAM is a confidential one-to-one meeting with an accredited family mediator. Your former partner attends their own separate MIAM.
What happens at a MIAM?
The mediator explains the process, costs and benefits, screens for safety concerns, considers whether mediation is suitable and can discuss legal aid eligibility.
If mediation is suitable and both people agree to proceed, joint sessions can be arranged. If it is unsuitable, or the other person refuses to engage, the mediator may sign the relevant court form.
Child-inclusive mediation in Blackpool
Child-inclusive mediation allows a child to meet privately with a specially trained mediator, where suitable. This can help parents understand the child’s views and feelings without asking the child to make decisions or choose sides.
Child-inclusive mediation is usually considered for older children, depending on maturity. Both parents must consent, and the mediator will explain what can and cannot be fed back to the parents.

Legal aid funding for mediation
Funding options may be available to support families in Blackpool with the cost of family mediation.
Legal aid: If you qualify based on income and capital, legal aid may cover your MIAM and mediation sessions. If one parent qualifies, the other parent may also receive a free MIAM and first joint session.
Voucher scheme: Where available, the Family Mediation Voucher Scheme may provide a contribution towards joint mediation costs for cases involving child arrangements.
How Blackpool mediation works
| Contact Lakes Mediation | Speak to the team about your situation, whether it concerns children, finances, MIAMs or next steps after separation. |
| Attend a MIAM | You attend a confidential individual assessment meeting. The mediator explains mediation and assesses suitability. |
| Invite the other person | Where appropriate, the other person can be invited to attend their own MIAM. |
| Choose the format | Mediation can take place online, in person where available, or by shuttle mediation if sitting together is not suitable. |
| Build proposals | The mediator helps both people work through practical issues and record proposals where agreement is reached. |
| Formalise if needed | Some proposals may need legal advice or a court order before they become legally binding. |
Mediation in Blackpool with Lakes Mediation
Blackpool is known for its seaside attractions, Illuminations, historic piers, Blackpool Tower, the Tower Ballroom, Tower Circus and Blackpool Pleasure Beach.
The local economy often includes tourism, hospitality and service-sector work, which can involve shifts and variable working patterns. Online mediation can be particularly useful for families balancing work, childcare and travel across Blackpool, Lytham St Annes, Cleveleys and Fleetwood.
Our Blackpool hub
Blackpool Hub:
Lytham Road, Blackpool, FY4 1EW
This location is strictly by appointment only and is not staffed. Mediation and urgent MIAM appointments can also be arranged online.
Blackpool mediation FAQs
| Do I need a MIAM before court? | For many child arrangement applications, a MIAM is usually required before applying to court unless an exemption applies. |
| Can mediation help with a parenting plan? | Yes. Mediation can help parents create a practical plan covering time, handovers, holidays, communication and future decisions. |
| Can children be involved? | Child-inclusive mediation may be considered where suitable, both parents agree and the mediator is appropriately trained. |
| Can mediation be online? | Yes. Online mediation can support families in Blackpool and nearby areas where travel, shifts or childcare make in-person meetings difficult. |
| Can legal aid cover mediation? | Legal aid may cover mediation where eligibility rules are met. The team can explain what information is needed for an assessment. |
| Is the Blackpool hub staffed? | No. The Blackpool hub is strictly by appointment only. Please arrange an appointment before attending. |
Our Blackpool location
Find our Blackpool mediation hub at Lytham Road, Blackpool, FY4 1EW. Appointments must be booked in advance.
Start family mediation in Blackpool.
Speak to Lakes Mediation about MIAMs, child arrangements, parenting plans, online mediation, shuttle mediation or legal aid checks.
